Biwi aur Kaneez sharai ke ilawa qaza e shehwat ki mukhtalif soorten maslan zina, lawatat, janwaron se bad feli aur musht zani waghera, sab ki sab haraam o najaaiz hain. En najaaiz o haraam umoor mein say aaj hum ne jis topic par baat karni hai wo musht zani hai. Aaj es pur fitan dour mein mobile, internet aur TV waghera par bay hayai kay manazir dekh dekh kar nojawanon ki ek tadad hai jo musht zani ka shikar ho jati hai.
Aur es baat say bay khabar keh es kay deeni aur dunyavi kya nuksanat hen wo bad mast ho kar es bemari mein mubtila rehty hen aur jab enko es baat ka ehsas hota hai to pani sar say guzar chuka hota hai. Aur ye apni zindagi ko barbad kar chuky hoty hen. Aaj hum es khabees fail say jitna hum say ho sakta hai parda othany ja rahe hen. Es tehreer ko dil jami kay sath ek dafa mukamal parhen.
Sub say pehly hum musht zani kay hawaly say apne Nabi ka farman suntay hen phir eski waeedain aur nuksanat janen gay. Huzoor Nabi e Kareem ﷺ ney irshad farmaya,
“Apne haath se nikah karne wala maloon hai.”[1]Fatawa-e-Razvia, Jild 10, Safha 80,
Musht Zani ke baray mein waeedain
Apne haath se ghusal wajib karne ke baaray mein kai waeedain bayan ki gayi hain. maslan
- Allama Shams o deen Zahbi علیہ رحمۃ naqal karte hain ke Rahmat e Aalam ﷺ se marwi hai keh:
“7 log aisay hain ke jin par Allah pak ney laanat farmai hai aur baroz e qayamat un ki janib nigah e rahmat nah farmay ga. Aur un se farmay ga keh jahannum mein daakhil honay walon ke sath daakhil ho jao, bashart e kah yeh tauba nah karen.- Bad feli karne wala.
- Bad feli krwane wala.
- Janwar se bura kaam karne wala.
- Maan aur beti se nikah karne wala.
- Apne haath se ghusal wajib karne wala.[2]Kitab ul Kabair, Safha 63
- Allama Mahmood Aalusi علیہ رحمۃ Tafseer Rouh ul Maani mein likhte hain, “Hazrat Ata علیہ رحمۃ se marwi hai, “Main ney suna hai ke baroz e qayamat aik qoum ko is haal mein laya jaye ga ke un ke haath haamla hon ge, mery khayaal mein yeh woh hon ge jo apne haath se ghusal wajib kiya karte thay.”
Mazeed likhte hain, “Hazrat Saeed bin Jabeer رضی اللہ تعالیٰ عنہ se marwi hai keh “Allah pak ney ek aesi qoum ko azaab mein mubtila farmaya jo apni sharam gahon ka ghalat istemaal kiya karte thay.”[3]Ruh al-Ma’ani, Al-Mu’minoon: 3, al-juz al-thamin ashar, Jild 9,،Safha 16
Musht Zani k 26 Nuqsanat
- Dil kamzor,
- Maida,
- Jigar aur
- Gurday kharab,
- Nazar kamzor,
- Kaanon mein shayin shayin ki aawazian aana,
- Chirchira pan,
- Subah uthhe to badan sust,
- Jorr jorr mein dard aur ankhen chipki huien,
- ” Money” patli parr jaaney ki soorat mein thori thori ratobat behti rehna, naali mein ratobat parri rehna aur sarna, phir is sabab se baaz auqaat zakham ho jana aur is mein peep parr jana
- Shuru mein pishaab mein mamooli jalan,
- Phir mawaad nikalna,
- Phir jalan mein izafah
- Yahan tak keh purana sozaak ho kar zindagi ko aisa talkh kar daita hai keh aadmi mout ki arzoo karne lagta hai,
- “Money” ka patli honay ke sabab bilaa kisi khayaal ke pishaab se pehlay ya baad pishaab mein mil kar nikal jana isi ko “Jaryaan” kehte hain jo shadeed tareen amraaz ki jarr hai,
- Uzoo mein terha pan,
- Dheela pan,
- Jarr kamzor,
- Shadi ke qabil nah rehna,
- Agar jima mein kamyaab ho bhi gaya to aulaad ki umeed nahi,
- Kamar mein dard,
- Chehra zard,
- Aankhon mein garrhay
- Shakal wehshiana,
- Tip diq[4]Yani purana bukhaar,
- aur Pagal pan.
Pagal ho jane ka Ek sabab
Ek ittila ke mutabiq jab ek hazaar tip diq[5]Yani Purana Bukhaar ke mareezon ke asbaab par ghor kiya gaya to yeh baat samnay aayi keh 414 musht zani [6]Yani Muth marna ke sabab, 186 kasrat e jima ke baais aur bakiya deegar wajuhaat ki bina par mubtlaye tip diq hue they. 124 pagalon ka imtehaan karne par maloom hua keh un mein se 24[7]Yani taqreeban har panchawan fard apne haath se money kharij [8]Yani musht zani karne ki binaa par pagal hua tha.
Imam Ahl e Sunnat Mujaddid deen o milat Moulana Ahmed Raza Khan علیہ رحمۃ الرحمن apne haath se ghusal wajib karne ke baaray mein likhte hain: “Yeh feal napak, haraam aur najaaiz hai.”[9]Fatawa-e-Razvia, Jild 10, Nisf Awal, Safha 8
‘Kar le tauba Rab ki rahmat hai barri Qabar mein warna saza ho gi karri’
Musht zani se chutkara kis terhan haasil karen ?
Sab se pehlay is gunah se paki sachhi tauba karen. Tauba ka tareeqa main ney post kar diya hai. Mulahiza farma len. Mazeed is ke asbaab par ghhor karen ke yeh gunah mujh se kyun sarzad ho raha hai. Buri sohbat ki wajah se, filmon daramon ki wajah se, internet ke ghalat istemaal ki wajah se ya bad nighai ki wajah se jo bhi sabab ho usko foran daur karen aur achi sohbat ikhtiyar karen. Apne aap ko darust kamon mein mashgool karen.
Jab bhi es gunah kay karne ka dobaara zehan banay to wudu kar len. Aur har waqt “لاحول” shareef ki kasrat karte rahen In sha Allah is aadat se chhutkara haasil ho jaye ga. Yaad rakhen nafs o shaitan bharpoor koshish kare ga keh aap is aadat se chhutkara nah haasil kar pao magar aap ny apne is iraday par pukhtagi ke sath qaim rehna hai. Aur har namaz ke baad aur ilawa namaz bhi is aadat se chutkare ke liye dua karte rehna hai. Kyunkay hadees pak mein aata hai keh:
Tarjuma : Dua momin ka hathyaar hai.
Mazeed aik aur baat keh khana kam khayen ke pait bhar khanay se bhi shehwat ko farogh milta hai. Sab se behtar yeh hai keh roza rakhnay ki aadat daal len keh roza shehwat ka toarr hai. Main umeed karta hon keh main aapko apni baat samjha paya agar nahen to Allah kary keh dil mein otar jaye meri baat. Himmat mat hariye ga koshish pe koshish karte rahiye ga. Nechy comment box mein aap apni raye ka izhar bhi kar sakte hen. Allah pak hamen es khabees gunah musht zani sey bachne ki tofeeq atta farmaye. Aamen
Hawala Jaat
Ek larki ki shadi my taakheer ho to umrr k hisaab sy shehwat ka ghalba zayada bath jay Jo kisi Surat na choty to kiya kiya jay
Jee bilkul wo apni shahwat ko kat sagti hai magar ye sub oski apni mehnat par hai. Osy chahiye keh wo lagatar rozy rakhy aur thandi taseer wali chezen istemal kary. Aur wo tamam activities chor de jis say zara bhi oska khayal bhatakta hai.
1)Shaadi may taakheer hony walay sabbab ka hal nikala jaye, un maslo ko solve kia jaye aur jald az jald nikkah kia jaye .
2)Dosra yay k rozay kasrat sy rakhny ki aadat dali jaye.
3)Akele rehne sy avoid kia jaye.
4)ALLAH tala ka zikr krtain rehain. arabic may ya urdu may kisi bhi tarha, tasbeeh e fatima, kalma, tashud, astagfaar, ALLAH TALA k naam parhtain rahain.
G behtar
kia ye haram fail chor dene se insaan ki health aur us k nafs ki health dobara se dandarust o tawana ho skti ha
Jee bilkul ho sakti hai. Magar es mein thora waqt lagta hai agar es kaam ko mustaqil chor diya jaye to.
Shukriya is post k liya…..
Q k ye aisi adat ha jn ko insaan gunah ni smjhta ..or ager bd me is sy chutkara hasil krna chahye to kisi sy ya baat share ni kr skta or phr na koi solution milta.. or pori zindagi aisy hi khraab ho jati.. me kafi arsa sy iska solution dhond rahi the…friend sy share krny ka socha lkn himmat ni hoi.q k ye adat mujy nabalghi or na smjhi me parri .. Allah mujy is azaab sy chutkara dilaye. sabit Qadam rakhy ….Or Myry guzashta gunah muaf frmye…….Ameen
Bhai jan kya tauba qubool hogi
Kitni baar tauba qubool hoti hai
6 mahenay roknay kay baad galti say aik katra nikal jae baqi na niklay tu isay kya kaha jae gha
bht aala bhai, Allah pak humy amal ki tofeeq ata farmae
Aamen
Taqreeban kitna waqt lag jata hai tabiyat me behtari aane me is fail ko chorne ke bad.
Es bary mein kuch keh nahi sakte. May be chand mah lag jaien
@ahsan iqbal
Sir ji mai india se hun aur mai mushtzani ki wajah se barbaad ho chuka hun kyun ke 14saal se lagatar kia hun
Kia mere ilaaj munasib hai
Mai abi tak shadi nai ki
G Abdul aap apna ilaj kar sakte hen. Es tehreer mein likhi baton par amal karen. Aur agar shadi kar sakty hen to fori kar len warna Roza rakhne ki aadat dalen aam dinon mein bhi.
Fi zamana Iska behtareen ilaj shaadi hai.. Maa baap bhi iske zimmedar hai kyunki apni aulaad ki shaadi jald nahi karte
Ahmed bhai aap ne bilkul baja fermaya. Kuch hamara bhi qasoor hota hai. Hamen apne waldain say khud bhi shadi ka kehna chahiye.
Hi
may nam zain may nay bohat kar diya hay ye galat kam mera zindagi bohat harab ho choka hay kamzor ho choka hu our liver may garmayesh hay mayday may kamar darad bohat masly hay ab mayny chor diya hay 2 moths hogaye hay may tik ho jawo ga
Bilkul aap thek ho jaien gay. Achi umeed rakhen aur Allah pak say Dua karty rahen.
Helo
Kiya musht zani chorny say (masturbation) chorny say kya apka sperm wapis normal ho skta hai. Kya aap bacha paida karny kay qabil aur shadi kay qabil ho jaty hain ? Kya aap ki health wapis normal hoskti hai ?
G bilkul mumkin hai
Kya musht zani se chutkara paney k bad is ( mushat zani ) k Jo nuqsanat hn ya the wo khtm ho jaye ge .
Please answer
G umeed to yehi hai. Apni khorak achi rakhen Behtri hogi. ان شاءاللہ
Agr banda hath lagaye par money na nikly to y b musht zani m count Hoga? or mahiny m 3,4 data naturally khud money nikly to y b musht zani m Ata ha??
Banda bila waja kyun hath lagaye ga. Agr wo shahwat ki waja say kisi ghalat maqsad k tehet laga raha hai to zahir c baat hai Gunahgar hoga.
Naturally agr soty hue niklay to wo ahtilam hai. Aur agr bila waja jagty hue money nikal jati hai to kisi achy tabeb say check karwaien ye health issue hai.
Kiya is ka English elaj b hy Jo is k sat sat jaildi bahteiri lay
Kisi doctor say mashwara kar len. Wo aap ko behtar guide karen gay
bhai jan i am 16 year old .
Mughe ye adad kuch years se hai or mughe isko chore 1 month hogya hai but aksar internet par galat cheezien dekhne ki waja se sleeping ke doran night fall hojata hai kia night fall bhi mastrubation m count hota hai or kia nightfall ke bad ghusal wajib hota hai .0r kia mean thik hojaoun ga or aulad peda kr paoun ga plz guide
Internet par ghalat cheezain dekhna chor den warna dobara eski aadat par jaye gi. Nightfall masturbation mein count nahi hota magar es say ghusal wajib hota hai. Aap bilkul thek ho jaien gay aur Aulad bhi peda kar paen gay. Agar aap kay naseeb mein aulad likhi hai to.
Mere age 18 hai mujhy 3,4 saal sy yhe lat lagi hi main bhot kamzor ho gya hu gaal pichky hi ankhy dhans gi hi meri halt boht zyada kharab hi apni sehat ki recovery k lye khaana, peena main kia istimal kro.
Thandi chezeen istemal karen. Jaise dahi, pudina, sabziyan waghera.
Mashallah ALL Reply good very nice Allah Apko is ka ajer atta farmay
Aamen
Sallam everyone
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Me ye kehna chahta h k me ab 27 ka h chuka h
Me Shuru se hi bht sensetive rha h, mujhse control nh hota or khud bakhud cum h jata h ek minute me hi ek 2 br sex try kia lkn jaldi farigh hone ki waja se Mera confidence level bht Kam h gaya h or shadi se b drta h
me btana chahta h k sexting ki waja se mujhe is Kam ki lat lag gy or taqreeban 6 7 saal h gaye mujhe musht zani krte hue Allah mujhe maf kre is gunah kelie ameen
Obviously musht zani ka asar to hoga lkn me bachpan se b sensetive hu
Me shadi krna chahta h lkn drta h k agr jaldi farigh h gya ya upr hi farigh h gaya to kia hoga
Me kia kru plz need serious advise